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Originally Posted by john70t
I'm guessing and projecting here as an outsider, so please excuse, that she really needs a stronger mentorship from someone she respects and is willing to accept dominance over her, and who is strong enough to cut to the chase and get into finding and releasing those feeling of anxiety and insecurity she's got bottled-up her entire life.
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Your guess is pretty spot on. The more direct and strong someone is with her, the better she respects them, to their face at least.
I explained this to my wife who feels like shes being rude when responding to her sometimes. Turns out, the more "rude" my wife thinks shes being, the more positive or clear resolve she gets from my mother.