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At the end of a cup of coffee or other small marker (even the end of a story or recollection in your conversation), etc., just say, "It's been great seeing you. Spouse and I have some work we need to do. Let's get together again."
An alternative is to tell the visitor that the text/email you just got on your phone is something that you and spouse need to attend to. No, it's not an emergency, but we need to respond. Could just be a "family thing."
Stand up and start collecting their coats/hats/etc. and walk with them to the door (and to their car if needed). Can be gentle/supporting/smiling. The earlier you do this, the more smiling you will be.
Like so many couples, develop a secret, non-verbal gesture that communicates to your spouse, "Get me out of this...." Then you'll both know you're on board with ushering the visitor out the door.
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James
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