The "modern man" stereotype is unsettling at best, but it's popular.
IMO many modern women can't comprehend or respect a man who "knows how to do stuff."
If you're a 'successful modern man' you can afford to pay for someone else to do the stuff.
the time where a man knew how to fix $chit is over.
I did a front brake job on Ms. Gogar's Panamera for (All Pelican

)cost + a few hours of my time and saved $750+ from her favorite stealership and somehow I lost relationship points for not being able to throw money down the rat-hole.
Maybe my beard isn't long enough or something.