To follow up... I got my items today and I am very happy with them. Brey krause camera mount and targa harness bar. It was an excellent score at $100.00 plus shipping. That it went for so little was one of the reasons I thought the seller might bail. I still don't understand the lack of communication around the simple task of marking something shipped in the eBay UI or shooting a quick note saying you can't ship right away etc...
As usual thanks for all the great advice!