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Originally Posted by ckelly78z
Living a good life is all about choices, you need to distance yourselves from negative people, drugs/tobbaco, and drama. Be an example for others, not a judgemental negative person who seems to hate everything......your choice !
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Thanks for the transition sentence
That line pretty much sums up how I've learned to manage and control my happiness which has redefined my life in the last 10 years. I've made the decision on how I want to react to every situation. I was brought up in a very negative environment, where if you didn't do it "our way" you were stupid. Learning that's not how the world works, learning to compromise, and just learning to learn...turned the light on for me.
I've learned all of this through my gorgeous wife, she and her family have helped me understand and see the world differently. They've also redefined what family and love means.
As I've been posting, I'm currently running through a very difficult time with my mother and it will likely only get harder as it's more apparent by the hour that my dad doesn't care to take action and help. I will do my best but understand it's not all something I can take on myself, I will learn from this and find the positive at the end of the road.
Otherwise, at 29...my life is Amazing. I'm writing this from my home office, work for a company that challenges me everyday, we have a gorgeous house we were able to put 50% down on, we own all 3 of our cars, have abundant "savings" which is only going to grow bc time is on our side.
Last and most important, we are all very healthy, my wife is doing great in the 3rd trimester with Saucy Jr the 2nd, and Saucy Jr the original is a happy, fun loving and smart little man.
In short, I'm doin' alright