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Originally Posted by Porsche-O-Phile
I guess the biggest thing that bugs me about it is that I feel like I'm stuck here by circumstance, not by choice. I left here twice in my life already (once to go to college in FL and the second time to go to graduate school in Chicago, then ultimately to the west coast). Both times I really didn't plan on coming back but I sort of got pushed into it - first for a job / internship and a relationship and the second time because it was literally the only game in town job-wise.
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It is always by choice. If you're getting pushed into it, then push back. I find it hard to believe that there was only one job in the entire country that you could do and it was back east. You're being held prisoner by your perception.
Have you done therapy? I did a number of years of it and it helped a lot (some might say I need more...). The world is what the world is. We make it something else by the way we view it and the judgements we place on things internal and external.