In the interest of full internet disclosure, I should clarify after my last post that
I am a bit of a slacker, (though I'm stepping-up my game some this year).
Here is a picture of one of my closest friends who I am co-producing a film with, at his 40th Notre Dame reunion a couple weeks ago. He's actually dressed up for that, the shirt is usually missing when he's at home on the beach. There is so much success around these people, both personally and family-wise that you could not even fathom, Mr. Judgemental.
Edit: not the best picture of his wife. She's actually very pretty.