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Originally Posted by tangerine911S
This seems to be a common mentality and I don't get it at all. Why the hell do you people have children? It seems like the first 18 years are hell, you can't wait to get them out, and you want relatively little to do with them after that. I understand wanting them to be independent because that is necessary and normal but growing up in a family where love was everywhere, to me this idea of get out now you're not my problem is just sad. No wonder so many young adults are screw ups. The people who are supposed to love and support them are giving them deadlines at young ages, years in advance, for when they are no longer wanted.
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Big difference between helping them an hindering their growth as adults. No tough love and ultimatums here, just not enabling adults to act like children.