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I put the delete message in there just for U Dennis....actually the message I wrote led me to an ephiphany on who might have made a complaint about me...and it ain't Paulie..However the Registries problem with me is more culumlative than with anyone persons complaint.

The R Gruppe isn't even a club...it's more of a loose knit association of people who share a common passion. Their mantra for lack of a better term is that "they leave the egos at the door." Meaning that your station in life doesn't matter...what matters is friendships that develope out of the common passion. The members feel so strongly about the egalitarian friendship aspect of the group that they are very protective of the group and get extremely defensive whenever anyone criticizes the group for any reason.

My point all along is that some criticism maybe justified and that one can listen to criticism and still Love something... The alternative is to defend an idealized situation which leads to an Us vs Them mentality.