[Chocaholic]

Dennis,

You're an insightful and intelligent person. I make it a point to read and re-read your posts, especially in PARF as they're among the few that actually shine a light on the topic with thoughtful consideration. That's why this thread surprises me. Had no idea.

You've received some good advice. A bit concerned about the fence you've put around your healthcare options. Just watching a 6cm mass seems a rather casual approach. Not a doc but I can't help but wonder if it's not contributing to the other problems you're having. I'd want it gone but some good medical advice is certainly warranted to confirm that wait-and-see is the best approach.

If intervention is required, and it will be eventually, you'll need to have it done in a competent hospital under the care of competent physicians. All easy to type and not easy to do. I feel for you, but life is a one-time shot as far as we know. There is medication for depression...also worth looking into. Better living through chemistry man!

Sorry to hear about your marriage. But there is good medication that can help with her menopause effects too. Another topic entirely, understood.

Funny, my first reaction when reading your post was....get a dog. Seriously. My parents went through health and relationship issues about 10 years ago (they're now in their mid-80's). They got a small dog (Havanese). It has transformed their lives from focusing on themselves, health issues and all the bad things to, well....Teddy.

Wishing you all the best Dennis. You have friends here. Stay the course and see this thing through. It's worth it.