[KFC911]

My dad had to do it for his, and I might have to in a few years...."do what you have to do". It'll be one of the hardest things you'll ever do, but it's the right thing imo.

My dad - disabled his dad's car (pulled distributor, etc.) over and over. The legal system, etc. will not assist you, imo it's a "family matter" and should be dealt with like you would a small child. Life is HARD sometimes....this is one of those times for your family....good luck!

ps: my grandfather was a WWII vet...no doc, dmv, or anything was gonna stop him from driving other than being unable to get his car started.