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Originally Posted by Craig T
I offered to start a healthy college fund for the coming grandson and pay for a sweet honeymoon if the got married at city hall. She's having non of that.
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Is it really up to her?
Adults are responsible for themselves. If she's about to have a child, she is about to face a lot of realities that she doesn't seem aware of now. Is the marriage ceremony of a pregnant girl the last, expensive, irresponsible fling before becoming an adult? If so, does she know that this is her last indulgence or does she think this is just part of a continuum of coddling?
I don't want to sound like a girl should be punished for getting knocked up, but the child (the coming one, not the parents) is what is important here. She needs to be focused on him, not herself. The fact that his mom is focused on a wedding and not a college fund bodes ill for the poor little guy.