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Originally Posted by Nostril Cheese
We already have a relationship, as unconventional as it is. I was just sharing my thoughts and seeing if others had any insight..
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You really have nothing to gain by pushing it, so let it evolve. If she wants more, then OK but otherwise why queer the deal with marriage? It'll go forward on it's own- all of a sudden you're up in Seattle all the time, etc. etc.
Seems like when you get older, it's like shopping for a car- you start off young looking for something that might or might not exist, then as time goes on and deals fall apart you eventually understand the reality of your needs and your life.
Then, you settle.
If you just got out, give yourself some time.
rjp