[Seabear]

Oilcan,
Every Monday I drive for the DAV out of American Lake VA hospital, Lakewood, Wa. Only occasionally do any of the veterans want to talk about their service, and rarely are there war stories. I keep a pretty tight lid on any discussion that veers off to politics/race/religion, sports and news are the usual topics, if there is any talk at all.
I've done this for 2 1/2 years. It can be quite enjoyable or it can be aggravating at times, not all the riders are guys or gals you would want to have a beer with. But, as some of the veterans will tell you, it is their lifeline to medical care, and without this service they would not be able to get help. In the end, it is veterans helping veterans, and that, Sir, is a very good thing.
Good luck on your search to contribute, there are lots of opportunities through the VA Volunteer service or the Red Cross.