[Superman]

You are doing all you can for her. Sadly, you can't 'make it all better.' As mentioned above, her memory loss may be more difficult for you than her. She is safe, and as comfortable as she can be. My mom celebrated her 90th birthday in October. We are looking into facilities that can provide more services than the 'independent' (but communal) living she has now. It is hard to watch her decline. I owe her so much. She is such a special lady. I think that is the hardest part. Watching her decline. I wish there were more I could do, and you wish the same thing. But there isn't. You are doing all you can. And probably....she is as comfortable as you can provide to her.