[monoflo]

The hard thing is getting perspective - of course we feel guilt -- but if in your heart you've done the right thing - nothing more you can do. If you are blessed to have a good relationship when they were 'here" dwell there not in the now. Easy to walk away --but on the back side one will feel better by hangin in. My Dad 27 year ago -- never wanted anything but the best for his boys -but one thing he said -if I leave early (he did ) take care of Mom. We did - we're good.
And if you believe in the afterlife thing its all good --and if you don't it good now.