I do understand the world is a much different place now than when I was a kid. As a non parent I am of course a total expert on parenting.
My nephews are in their late 20s but my wife has some young grand nephews. It does look like there is a contest to see how helpless the parents can make their kids.
The oldest grand nephew is 16 now. He is one of the kids that gives me hope for the future. He is smart, and does fully understand the value of hard work and education. My MIL really likes that kid. I hope he reaches his goals.