[RKDinOKC]

Yeah, Tom has been bailing out Bob financially for 40 years.

When he tried to tell me about his financial problems I told him about learning to live lean when I was in college and it really helped when I got a job at a pizza place that gave us coupons to eat free from. Even told him about Dad sending me $100 a month without me asking or telling him I needed money, then finding he had sold the van I had bought and used to mow yards. He was sending me the money he got for it in monthly installments. It may have been how he got paid for it, I didn't ask.

When Bob comes to visit for a Holiday. He lives in Tulsa 110 miles away. He always asked both me and Tom seapartely for $40 gas money for the trip. His Odessey can make the round trip twice for $40. Tom has told me to not give him any gas money unless he says it's okay so Bob isn't playing us.

Tom's wife has asked that Bob doesn't stay there when he visits. They have two really nice guest rooms with a sitting area and each with their own bath. They have people that stay with them all the time. They don't like that he stays up watching TV real loud until 3 or 4 am, then gets up at Noon expecting to be served breakfast.

Bob stayed in my guest room Thanksgiving but don't think he liked it. He got pissed off and tried to yell at me when he got up at noon and told me he was hungry. I told him I ate lunch at 11am, the food is in the kitchen to fix himself whatever he wants. Don't think he liked Pepper bringing him her toys all the time to play with her either. He kept yelling at her to go away. I know I didn't like him telling me my dog wasn't trained very well when she didn't respond when he didn't use the commands I told him to use. Think 4 days was just too many.

Christmas he only came for Christmas day then went back to Tulsa.