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Men are sometimes tough on sons, so that they can handle anything life throws at them.
Women baby little boys, and ''nurture''. You don't want to be too tough, and they shouldn't be too enabling. But they are. And you can't stop a woman from being a woman.
A man says what he has to say, and says it calmly but in all seriousness. Once. No whining allowed, or you sound like a little boy. I'm with Baz. Write up the document he outlined, and present it to the boy- in private. Ditch the women, and from now on when you have a little man to man with the boy, do it in private.
IMO, it is his life to ruin, or to make something of. Taking the easy way out is the problem, not the tattoo of itself. That is the lecture I would give him, and then I would back off. They always run to mommy if they can get away with it. He can, and your acting out with the girls just dilutes your brand. Don't do it.
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