I was asked about the pin tool that I posted about earlier, so I went through my pics.
It's actually a "Stahlwille" "Kabelex".
I got it from Baum Tools. They just sent me the whole Stahlwille catalog, which I don't have but maybe it's online.
There a handle, and a tube shaped ejector. You want to order the correct diameter.
And while I'm at it, here's how to eject the wires from a Blaupunkt old school head unit connector without damaging the now NLA connector.