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My first wife had a child from a relationship when we started dating. The girl was 5 when I came into the picture. I tried to raise her as my own but met resistance from her mother on discipline and other aspects. the father was a loser and didn't make any effort to share time or even see her.
I am doing things the same way with my own kids but my wife and I are a team.
My point is that unless the mother and you agree on how the kids will be raised, you COULD be in for a battle even on the simplest of topics.
My wife was raised by her Mom and stepdad from the age of 10 and turned out wonderful so it can go the other way as well. She is closer with her stepdad than her real dad.
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1981 911SC ROW SOLD - JULY 2015
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Wayne
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