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I raised 2 and have 2 of my own. All boys. I have heard of very harmonious situations, but that wasn't. Most of the time when there were issues it was that my wife didn't agree with the level of expectations and discipline I'd require of her 2boys. It was Ok that I was firm with my 2 but not hers. This also caused some major tension between she and I but at least the tension and its roots were recognized.Finally after a few year years she realized she and I were reaping what she had planted years earlier. By that time it was too late and the youngest has become a real burden to her and a major pain in my ass. The key is to make sure that the parents are on the same page.
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