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We probably don't realize the extent of the issue, because most women don't want to talk to men about it for risk of being judged or blamed.

One of my friends told me last year that she was roofied at a party when she was ~20 and came to half undressed, with her "friend" on top of her

A girl I was dating a while ago told me she was raped by her roomate's brother after a party at university. Happened on campus, administration encouraged her to settle

Another friend of mine was catching a cab home after a wedding, one of the groom's friends asked if he could tag along, got off at her stop and assaulted her. She didn't want to make a fuss afterwards and "embarass" the groom by outing his brother