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Originally Posted by flyenby
If you are a Rapist you are a low life scum bag....
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I'm less and less inclined to think it's as simple as that. I bet we all have a friend who is a really good guy who has raped/assaulted someone and just doesn't see it that way.
Even in those situations I cited above,2 of the women didn't make a stink about it because it was someone they knew, and they felt like they wouldn't be believed and they would be criticized. The one who DID make a fuss and pursued it had a terrible time, lost many friends and ended up dropping out of university.
Just think back to when you were in high school and university, how certain drinks were called "panty removers" etc. I'm not talking about getting boozed up and hooking up... I think a lot of guys get defensive because we enjoyed that *consentual* play. But there is a difference between enjoying the company of a woman who is horny because she is drunk vs specifically trying to get (or find) women too drunk too say no... that stuff goes on WAY more than we realize
There was a guy in high school that we had to consistently pull away from girls at parties. Nice guy, everyone liked him... everyone. But when he was drinking he'd get increasingly aggressive with girls, trying to get them drunk, trying to corner them. We'd keep an eye out and warn girls to watch out, and after a while he stopped being invited or would be sent packing... but he must have ended up at other parties.