[notfarnow]

One of the best things my counsellor told me: Don't trust your instints, for at least a year.

So true, my head was all over the place as I tried to keep my mind busy and fill "the void" Go back to her, shack up with the girl I started dating, change careers, grow my business, shrink my business. There are so many forks in the road that it can be overwhelming, and if you're used to bouncing ideas of someone else it can be really chaotic.

I took a year to just "steady the ship", and now that things have settled down and I am happier, I'm starting to trust my instincts again. Except the one where I want a baby, that one seems iffy even though my ovaries just ACHE sometimes