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Recycled has a very good point....... choose someone you can confide in who will listen to you. People pay for counseling when they don't have that confidant in their network of close friends.
talking out your feelings is a good thing and helps stabilize your thoughts and deal with the incremental changes you MUST make to get to a peaceful place.
The other thing is that some people have great difficulty dealing with change. As hard as it is for these people, they are their own worst enemy because they avoid change and yet it is inevitable. Then when it is forced on them, BANG, hard times.
Embrace change, practice it, get use to it........ it is the normal condition of existence....... developing the ability to deal with change constructively will be the best personal improvement you may ever make.
Lee, there are LOT of fish in the sea............ get through the "knothole" here and when you are ready, embrace your new freedom!
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