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Originally Posted by pcardude
My lady just left me too. She even took the TP.
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That's OK as long as you don't give a crap...
My first wife was pretty aggressive wanting a quick monetary settlement and buy out.
That worked in my favor.
The lawyers wanted to play ping pong with the file to drive the costs up. I let it be known that another month or two of that happening there wouldn't be anything to fight over. It was a signed deal shortly after.
To the OP, just take it easy and do what you have to do and get through this. I was another one of those guys that drank too much and partied like a rock star, chasing pretty much anything that would put up with me at that point. It didn't take long for me to realize that I was living hard and wouldn't last long as a functional member of society. Had found a great gal to hang out with for a number of years and while she was great, we were not going in the same direction. No one got hurt and it was a good situation for the both of us coming out of crappy relationships.
All this set up the potential to have another shot at being in a relationship.
So far, so good!