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Originally Posted by sand_man
I can relate to this sentiment. This was a lot of the mental stuff I suffered through. It was ALWAYS my fault!!!! Even if I were no where near an incident (sitting behind my desk at work across town, while she was a stay at home mom) and something went wrong on the home front, it was some how my fault! Even if it made no sense to assign fault or blame to the situation!!!! I won't ever tolerate that sort of BS again. NOT EVER! No more head games! I was young and dumb and inexperienced when I married. And I feel that as the marriage grinded on, I became more aware of my surroundings and what my requirements were as a man. This no longer fit...and there was no changing it.
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Werd.
It can't be your fault if you aren't around to her the b***hes complaints. If you happen to get one of those, leave. No discussion, no trying to "understand", leave. Not worth the headache.
They get their ability to manipulate by staying in front of them. If you dispose of 'em, no more issue.
rjp