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For me what started amicably it turned south quick when money and splitting assets were on the table..

After a lot of duct tape on my mouth, we calmly talked and talked...

In summary:
She "let me go" with my retirement savings and other stuff that she would've been entitled as well.

So not everyone else is out there on a vendetta but you have to have the right woman to do that.

Don't use a lawyer cause she's going to be all pissed off and the lawyer will get your money in fees.

The best and cheapest divorce is when you and your ex work together.


You don't have to be her friend, just remain friendly and accept that you will loose money and your life will change - like it or not..