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Originally Posted by KNS
I would probably follow POPs suggestion at getting a lawyer but not all women are out to screw their ex.
When my wife divorced her ex (I'm her second husband but its the first marriage for me), they pretty much went their separate ways but had to figure out splitting child visitation, etc. She kept the house (since sold) and he pays a monthly child support payment (which hasn't been upped in years).
At the time of the divorce they made roughly equal pay so no alimony or spousal support. In the years before their marriage she paid off all his debt and helped him pay for his school. He had been cheating on her for years before and during their marriage - she could have been nasty but left his (handsome) fire fighter's retirement alone. She just wanted to wash her hands and be done with him.
Not every woman out there is on a vendetta but my wife certainly could have chosen to do so.
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You already know this but your wife is a class act & she saved herself a lot of emotional energy by "washing her hands of him".
That's the key right there. Process what happen, do the things that need to be done and then MOVE ON.