[RKDinOKC]

Maybe this will make you at least feel normal if not better...

I am youngest of 6. Mom had 2 girls and then a boy with her first husband. He was killed in a car/train accident 2 weeks before son was born. Father was widower with a boy a year older than Mom's oldest girl. They got married and had a son, my only full brother. When I was born 13 years after full brother, the oldest brother was in the air force and both sisters were in college.

Every one of my siblings either themselves won't talk to someone or have a family member that won't talk to them.

Oldest sister disowned Mom when she got married right out of college. Never reconciled. I've never met or talked to her.
Oldest brother's kids won't talk to him or each other.
Other sister has an adopted son that can't be trusted or he will steal you blind.
Brother on my Mom's side's middle boy disowned his whole family won't let his family talk to his mom, dad, or siblings families.
Full brother had kids from 2 ex wives that wouldn't talk to him, and two boys from another that would but never did.

I don't call or talk to my brothers and sisters very much. It's not that we aren't talking, they are all just so much older we don't have a lot in common. I'm the age of their oldest kids and don't really like them treating me like one of their kids. Which they do.

My aunts and uncles on both mom's and dad's sides and their families are in various states of messed up with somebody not talking to somebody as well.