Got 3. Not once have either of us ever woken up and said "Gee, wish we had a kid". And not once have either of us regretted having the kids we got. Well, except for that one time....
Was told we couldn't have kids. No big deal, didn't particularly want any. Then the wife started playing with her sister's BC pills to avoid having a period while we were on a cruise, and a month later, wallah! Child #1 on the way (about to turn 16 now). At which point wife starting planning child #2, worked with OB/GYN and found out that glucophage (diabetes drug) can help women with PCOS become fertile. Child #2 turns 13 in December. Wife didn't get snipped while having her c-section, I didn't get snipped, a few years of various BC methods and the wife and I started not getting along well and sex dropped to the point of "eh, buy a box of condoms every year, if you are lucky". Child #3 turns 6 in November
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Age? I'm 45 and She Who Must Be Obeyed is 48.... you got time to have another, or adopt! My dad was 45 when I was born... my former boss (now retired) was 48 when his first was born, 51 with his second. His wife is 10 years younger than he is...