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Originally Posted by 1975porsche
Yesterday I get a text from an old girlfriend (35 years ago) she would like to meet for a drink, should I go? She has no kids younger than 27 so not that, very curious.!!!
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Drink should be coffee or tea for starters, but I suggest sticking to a single phone call.
A few years ago an old "friend" wanted to talk to me, she went though my brother via Facebook to get me her number. I saw she had talent taking nature photos, and went with the game plan of encouraging her to purse it as any friend would.
On the phone the whole time I knew she was looking for a way out of her miserable life, using the oldest tool in her toolbox (
her vagina). I wanted no part of that.
You can still be a friend without sticking it in, you just need a script, and then stick to it.
Who knows, you may help her find a little peace in life.
Remember, you got off that bus ride a long time ago for a reason, no going back. You are simply on a different route now.
If done correctly I don't see how checking your rear view mirror does anything but add perspective to your own life choices. You may find out you did more things right than wrong, and feel pretty good about yourself.