[recycled sixtie]

After a few years of living with my wife she wanted to go see an old boyfriend. Of course she asked me to go along. The old boyfriend was married as well. We all had a good visit.

In your situation I would suggest taking your wife along. You do value your marriage right? Now turn it around and your wife wanted to see an old boyfriend would you want to be asked to go along or not?

The grass is not always greener on the other side. There was a good reason why you broke up before with the old flame.