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Originally Posted by recycled sixtie
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In your situation I would suggest taking your wife along. You do value your marriage right? Now turn it around and your wife wanted to see an old boyfriend would you want to be asked to go along or not?
The grass is not always greener on the other side. There was a good reason why you broke up before with the old flame.
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This.
I once heard the best definition of "cheating" boiled down to a single sentence.
Any romantic or sexual contact you would not want your spouse to know about, or similar contact for the spouse that you would not allow your spouse to have.
You should first and foremost tell your wife right away that an old girlfriend contacted you. If you are uncomfortable even mentioning that, stay away from the ex girlfriend.
If you honestly think the old girlfriend just wants to chat, bring your wife to the meeting.