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Originally Posted by creaturecat
loneliness can be a powerful drug. as long as he's happy, and not being abused .......
imho she should somehow be limited to a mutually-agreed-upon budget of sorts. and monitored reasonably closely.
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And if he called at his moment- this would be my strategy.
"You both are unique, you both are happy (well... most of the time), you both are benefiting from this arrangment. Getting married will accomplish nothing, not will it iron out the knots in the current turmoil. in fact, it will make it worse. If you want to give her the moon- you still can, at any time. Why buy the cow? You are both getting the milk for free"
(funny- while typing milk I typed "milf", but I don't think this quite applies!
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