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David - You are correct, a number of men have physically hurt their wives and children. But that has become a stereotype, as is the idea that women care for their children. Stereotypes makes it very difficult for the many, many men who really care for their children to be allowed to do so. It's a form of discrimination - that ultimately hurts the children.

Jurgen - Keep your eyes open, avoid golddiggers, liars, cheats. Eventually the right girl will come along and you will know (with a 50% chance of actually being right!).