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Originally posted by island911
Yes, while you didn't hint at an "absolute', I think you did (more than) hint at the idea that women are by nature better suited for rasing children alone.
Okay, so "Moms home" is generally "Better" how?
. . . Better at caving to the every whim of the child; creating a spoiled brat that can't cope in the real world?
. . .Better at providing an emotional roller-coaster?
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No no no. You're comparing a good man to a good woman. That scenario results in a draw. The "system" assumes the man is the weak link (historical trends) and prefers to place the child with the mother.
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Originally posted by island911
The thing is; men and women have (general/stereotypical) relative strengths and weaknesses. To fall back on some preconceived, stereotypical notion that the "benifit of the doubt" should go to the woman is HUGELY irresponsible to the well being of the child(ren).
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You are right Island, it is HUGELy irresponsible and that's what needs to be fixed - however male pattern aggression towards women and children is not preconceived or stereotypical.