[Baz]

When I was much younger I had the occasion to attend a driver's class instead of getting points for a traffic citation.

Most of these classes are a huge waste of time for me but I remember the instructor this day making a point that did stay with me.

A person's personality can take the form of 3 different attitudes.

1. The child ("I want that to happen....therefore I am going to....")
2. The parent ("You shouldn't be doing that...therefore I am going to...")
3. The adult ("I know what I want and I know that is not right but I will maintain composure and do the responsible thing.")

#3 is the ideal attitude