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My wife and I have a discussion on this about every 3 months. It is not about who gets what, that is detailed in our wills. It is about how we want to be sent off.
Discussing this does not need to be a difficult conversation. But, having the discussion provides a lot of insight into what the other one wants. As an example, my wife wants her ashes to be scattered at a particular place. I told her that was something that I wanted to do alone by myself. She said no, she wanted our children & grandchildren present. I had not previously known that is how she wanted it handled. But, I am glad we talked about it.
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