[pavulon]

I caved and 2 of 4 kids still sleep with me. It's just me though. The up-side is everyone stays warm and gets deep sleep which I believe helps them stay physically and emotionally healthy. It was this way for every kid and eventually, the the 2 oldest got tired of being crowded and began sleeping in their own rooms so I know it's temporary and not worth worrying about.

It might be awhile if your 1 year-old has health issues but honestly, you may have a better relationship with her and she less anxiety if you just let her sleep with you guys and/or rotate sleeping with her for a time. Not to insult anyone but being a parent is a lot of rolling with whatever works. You have a wife for support. You're lucky!! I'd imagine you'll look back someday and be good with it.

ymmv.