[M.D. Holloway]

Dairy intolerance and you live in Scotland? Interesting. Are you both of Celtic decent? Normally not a trait found in Northern Europeans. As you most likely know, its about the lack or even absence of the enzyme lactase which is responsible for helping breakdown the lactose sugar found in milk.

But as stated, if she calms down when you bring her into bed with you it isn't so much a physiological situation as it is behavioral. That will put a huge burden on you and your wife yet so will the crying all hours of the night. Lots of sound advice on how to break that habit.

Wish I could offer you the magic words to make it all better sadly I have none...