[RKDinOKC]

Let him stay with you a couple of days. The word sympathy will leave your vocabulary.

Last month Tom sent him money plus to pay off all his bills.
The plus money had some stipulations on it to put it in savings to prove to Tom he could be responsible with it. Tom has helped him financially many times in the past and Bob blew it.
Bob had plenty of money to pay this months bills.

I had talked to Bob a couple of weeks ago after Tom had bailed him out but before his phone got turned off and Bob mentioned taking some new classes and some new ET whistle blower books I needed to read that were just published. AND complained that he barely had enough money to eat.

His phone was turned off because he didn't pay the bill.

Think Tom has about reached his charitable limit with him because he is not doing anything towards improving his situation.

Bob's wife divorced him because he took the grocery money and went deer hunting in Colorado with it leaving her and the two school aged kids without anything to eat for two weeks.