[DanielDudley]

A choice is:
a free selection, after, but not based upon, reason or consideration.

You decide based on facts. Your choice is based on something more, a gut feeling, whatever. Somehow at some point you have to resolve feelings of doubt, and make a choice, simply because you choose. It then becomes what you have chosen. Why did you choose it ? because this is what I choose. Often I find that if I cannot make a choice, I need to let the other parts of my mind work on it after all the facts have been gathered. I understand that things sometimes come to me without any conscious effort on my part, if I let them.

I think the most important thing you need to do in life is to stop looking at the possibility of failure, and look at where your intention would like you to be. You are on the racetrack, and you start to slide. There is a telephone pole out at the edge of the corner and beyond. If you look at the telephone pole, you are going to hit it. SO YOU LOOK AT WHERE YOU WANT TO GO, you look down the track towards the end of the corner. Once you stop focusing on what you want to avoid, and start focusing on where you want to go, your mind, body, and all of your being will work in concert to take you where you want to go. You will get there.

Focus your intention on what you want, don't think about what you don't want. Don't even think about thinking about it. Think about your intention, think about what you want, and make a choice while looking down the road at where you want to go. After the choice is made, Keep looking down the road. Trust yourself, and don't look back. Keep telling yourself what you want to accomplish, and where you want to go.