[Evans, Marv]

When I said "play the field," I wasn't necessarily meaning the usual sexual interpretation. I was single for many years and could get in the sack with lots of women and did. Playing the field to me was having and meeting women I enjoyed doing things with and visa versa and having a choice of choosing what I wanted and with whom. That removed a lot of the tension over the sex games and allowed both people to just enjoy the experience for what it was. If you're happy concentrating on (investing in ?) one woman at a time, that's your style and it's OK. The fact you've come to terms with developing the "attitudes" you mention is a huge plus for you and your happiness. Congrats.