I must confess that after I split up from my first wife that I took up with another woman within a few weeks. She became my second wife about three years later. I have no regrets as we are very compatible.
I think you are doing great Lee and it sounds like you have a good attitude.
Just a quick quote from Facebook that I read the other day. Note to wife "thanks for not killing me while I sleep at night". I modify it to "thanks for not killing me".