[jyl]

20 people this year. I'm a pre-first, then cook, clean-as-you-go person. I don't like sharing a kitchen with anyone. Especially not my wife, who wants to use every pot and utensil and doesn't believe in wiping anything up until the meal is over. Early in our marriage we established the rule that "whoever cooks, also does the cleanup". I told her that eating her cooking wasn't worth the cleaning up after.