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If random shlit bothers you, take a minute to find out why.
1). Put your foot down: "Sorry, could you stop that please. It bothers me because _x_."
2). Or explore: "I noticed you are a bit fixated on _x_. So let's talk about x, but not for more than 10 minutes. Let it all out that which concerns you. We will listen quietly for that time period. We will acknowledge but not necessarily validate your concerns. We accept you."
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