[sc_rufctr]

(I'm 51) I think a lot of guys around my age are going through the same thing.

You haven't failed because you're still out there having a go. Failed would be sitting at home after having given up.

A movie I saw recently. "Blood Father" overall not bad but the lead character reminded so
much of guys I know who just drift around from job to job not getting much of anything done.

Limited opportunities does not make it your fault.

Would you move for a good job? I know that's huge.