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I think perhaps, that you were named God-Parents as more of a convenience to them, than an honor to you.
Some boundaries need to be set very early with this couple, and their kids, or else you will notice a patern of abuse taking place guided at you.
The "Tahoe experience" may just be an anomoly that hpappened all at once, and you were there to pick up the peices. Give them another shot, with some understanding that you aren't parents, (and really didn't ask to be instant parents of their kids).
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